a listener of last resort
“Via a parent or sister or nun or friend, a spouse or former spouse, names and addresses of the AIDS afflicted had a way of making their way to Dan. One visit tended to lead to another until death intervened. A typical first sentence: ‘I heard from so-and-so that you were ill and thought I would drop by to see how it’s going.’ He never identified himself as ‘Father Daniel,’ just Dan. ‘I wanted to make it as clear as possible that I was seeking no conversions or last-minute confessions,’ he told me. Dan often presided at funerals of people whom he had met only months or weeks before. He described himself as ‘a listener of last resort.’”
Jim Forest, At Play in the Lion’s Den: A Biography and Memoir of Daniel Berrigan.















